I was talking with a fren while driving to check out a room in Setapak d other day when he asked me whether status can make a difference in a relationship.
To me,sumtimes status can be a stumbling block especially if the other guy is still in the closet cos he needs to "jaga muka" (keep on appearances) but if he is out and no one gives a damm,why bother? But yeah,u need to be subtle; within close frens,its ok to let ur hair down but during an official dinner,DO NOT proclaim that he is urs with a DANCE.
The other thing is what if the guy is richer than u? Do u let him control ur every action or try to tone down or at least match his share of treats. DO NOT LET HIM BUY U THAT DIAMOND TIARA THAT U WANTED SINCE 10. Its not proper,I mean he is ur lover not a sugar daddy.
Sumtimes ppl use their wealth to show affection which will shackle the other person to do their bidding. U have be smart to know the difference of a genuine gift and a gift with intention. (This implies to both parties)
Always remember that u love the person not the size of his account.
To me,sumtimes status can be a stumbling block especially if the other guy is still in the closet cos he needs to "jaga muka" (keep on appearances) but if he is out and no one gives a damm,why bother? But yeah,u need to be subtle; within close frens,its ok to let ur hair down but during an official dinner,DO NOT proclaim that he is urs with a DANCE.
The other thing is what if the guy is richer than u? Do u let him control ur every action or try to tone down or at least match his share of treats. DO NOT LET HIM BUY U THAT DIAMOND TIARA THAT U WANTED SINCE 10. Its not proper,I mean he is ur lover not a sugar daddy.
Sumtimes ppl use their wealth to show affection which will shackle the other person to do their bidding. U have be smart to know the difference of a genuine gift and a gift with intention. (This implies to both parties)
2 comments:
totally agree! - from the too str8 too be a gay guy
i like the size of his diiick
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