Me: Can we date?
He: erm,ur too nice for me. I don't wanna break ur heart.
Being nice is nono.. Most girls don't like Nice Guys, Now it seems (looking at other blogs) that gays also will say nono to nice guys.
So its ok to date a jerk, player or even gold digger but its nono to nice guys. What is wrong with the picture here? Nice guys who loves u, who will take care of u properly, who will treat u decently and who will respect ur family is a nono but a crazy guy who beds everyone even the Jaga or a person who give u shit daily is dateable?
If u wanna dump someone or say no 2 someone, pls stop saying that person is nice and blah4, just say that " Sorry, I cannot date cos ur not my type or ur birthdate is all wrong". Those excuses do make sense.
The world, it seems is a weird place.. and now it is getting weirder..
2 comments:
agree!!
Well... sometimes saying that someone is "too nice for me" is another way of letting them go easily without breaking their heart. There is no easy way to reject someone and many people will opt to sugar coat their words instead of coming out with the utter truth (ex. You have bad breath and I find your taste in music utterly appalling or I'm sorry I prefer a guy who is more *insert adjective here*) so instead of taking the hard tone, they prefer to let their suitors go with a more conciliatory note, and point out instead a good trait about them which perhaps suggests that they might find someone else who can appreciate them for who they are. ALTHOUGH... they COULD have phrased it better! GEEZ could you be any more confusing right??? Anyway this is just how i make sense of it :)
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