Inferiority

He is so immature........

.........He is richer than me

He has more ex than me..........

............He has more time than me

He has a hotter body than me.......

Sounds familiar? Many of relationships failed cos of inferiority complex, let it be cos of the level of maturity or the level of looks and etc.

The reason is why would we want someone when the gap is huge? We tend to lie to ourselves than we could change the person into someone we want or at least narrow the gap thru time,but seriously do we want to remold someone or love that person? Do we really need to change that person into someone that we want or simple accept for who he is?

If we want to remold,reeducate or change that guy,why don't we get ourselves a child? We could make that child into a clone of us since he is still a being who is pure.

What right to we have on a person who has been molded by his own parents,frens,teachers and society longer than we have known him? We aren't a nanny but a lover,just a lover,a position that doesn't mean much,our rank is just above his frens. Do we have that much power to defy the teachings of his family?

My advice is everytime he makes a fuss of someting insignificant, think of the reasons why u fall in love and the good time that u have shared and let the sad & angry times be a distant memory.