Confusion

Every person would go thru a phase of confusion,a phase where an individual sets his own principles,goals and identity. The duration and the timing for this phase varies for each person,some may had it earlier and some later.

This phase of confusion occurs more in homos than in heteros due to a major aspect of their lives which is sexuality. Many would think that sexuality is a minor thing but its actually a major body function and its a basic human need.

During puberty,many would at least experiment with sexuality and would have at least an homo encounter,let it be a hand job or anal encounter. Some would realized that they enjoyed the encounter and start to question their sexuality silently. Most would ignore this since we are in the East where we have strong gender identity,meaning our society had strongly implanted the idea of what a man is and of what a woman is. This way of thought is emphasized strongly in Islamic cultures.

I know some homos who had a hetero-relationship and some heteros who had a homo-relationship. This conclusion of their sexuality is based on their experiments and their acceptance of their identity. Although,there are some who decided wrongly or had been influenced by their social groups in their decision making. This particular group is doubly still in their phase of confusion.

Lastly,there is a group which doesn't have identity crisis meaning from an earlier age,they know that they are gay or straight,these ppl are the lucky ones. Why are they different? This is because of their maturity level,experience level and the exposure they have,let it be books or ppl.

As an conclusion,readers who are still confuse on their sexuality shuld experiment and read more on sexuality especially those who are still young. The readers shuld not decide on this just becos of one person or encounter.