A fren of mine came to me and asked for advice with a prob that he thinks he may be having a certain male lecturer in his uni. (for the sake of making it clear,let's name the lecturer,Mr H).
He told me that he got gay vibes from this lecturer,very subtle ones,from the way that Mr H talks and acts in class. Mr H often aims him with questions and touch him (on the arms or shoulders). Mr H always noticed what he does when he is in class and sumtimes Mr H would tegur him in the corridors.My fren even did an experiment where he wore a ring on his ring finger on the left hand to show that he's taken and guess what,Mr H was in a foul mood throughout the lecture.Oh,yeah,their age difference is about 4 yrs.
My advice was to stay clear of this kind of relationship cos its not healthy for both parties,the lecturer might be suspended or fired and the student may find himself in a ugly place but if my fren wanted to pursue,I told him to do so when he has graduated.
What do u think,oh my wise readers?
4 comments:
Hey there! You might not know who i am but let's just say that i am an avid reader of your blog. In my personal opinion, there's no harm for the existence of a lecturer-student relationship if both parties agree to it. To be honest what is so immoral about a lecturer/student relationship?
If they were to be in love with each other and i know that sexual or platonic relationship between lecturers and students during the studentship of a student at an institute are blatantly discouraged, then by all means they should just keep their affair a secret and only show their affection when they are out of the university compound.
In the end, it lies in the hand of your friend whether he has interest or no interest in that particular lecturer of his, right?
Mr H doesn't seem to have much self-control. Things should be kept professional. If they wanna pursue it, do it outside of the classroom.
Kinda agree with both... as long as they noe how to their boundaries why not right?
Kelvin: I'm honored with ur intro...The main prob is what happens when the Admin finds out
Will: I was surprised too at his reaction.
Arman: Do u think Mr H would be fair in giving grades?
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