Monday, October 4, 2010

Gay's views on love relationships

I was chatting with a gay fren in the States earlier when he said that the failure of trying to change the law regarding gay marriage is due to the lack of unity among gays. Surprised rite?

It seems that there are 3 views regarding gays and relationship which I will explain below.

1) The majority

Gay meets Gay. They embark on a relationship 2gether. A few years later,get a house,try to get married or join hands in civil marriage,have a child or 2,get a dog and retire.

This flow of events are often what majority of gays want in life besides getting the Cs.They just want to settle down and raise a family or at the very least have a shot of normalcy.

2) The minority

Gay meets Gay,Gay fuck Gay,Gay left Gay. Repeat

This flow of events are what Gays who says that since guys have a tendency to cheat therefore gays cannot maintain a long term relationship. This group of Gays shuns the idea of getting married and blahx3. They labeled those who want otherwise are copying the ways of the Heteros. I mean why must Gays have the same lifestyle as Heteros after all we are different,we fly solo.

3) The in-betweens

They have partners but they do sleep around others at the same time. They take the benefits of being loyal to one and being free willed. Often than not,they will have certain agreements like,no guys are to be brought home or no guys are allowed to be the fuckee and etc.

In conclusion,I agreed that we're a diverse group from ranging from twink-lovers to slaves but in some issues,we have to unite and put our differences aside after all,we are the minority.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Nice post. Inspiring to know the different group of gay men.

Lucas said...

I think your three categories are just human nature, as you get the same three types of people in the heterosexuals...

It certainly isnt a gay related matter...

Pluboy2 said...

yea.. it exist everywhere...not just gay, and i hope you're not talking about me lol...

Bravebear said...

Erm... Ichi... I think Heteros have those variations like gays too. There are those that just fuck around and not get attached or married. They also have all the slave thingy going on...

ichimaru akira said...

CJ: I was surprised 2

Lucas: Erm,maybe I have not been hanging around heteros much or I have a very limited frens who are heteros

Takashi: hehehehe... no comment..

Bear: Everyone have fetishes but heteros' life story will end in marriage especially in Asian countries(I think)

Ash Godiva said...

surprise me they are many type 1..thought type 2 are the majority..

Unknown said...

hei, we are growing as majority ^^ but no one dares to say it out.




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