Are you gay?

This is a hard question to answer even for gays who are in the open. I mean what really define people who are gay. Is having sex or liking men enough to define that one is gay? There are a lot of heteros who worship the male form,admiring those with perfect guns or abs, so are they gay?

For me,the definition of being gay is a person whose loves his/her own gender and do partake in sexual activities with his/her own gender. A rather vague definition but it sums everything.

Now,are sissies gay? The answer no,not all of them are gay. As people are unique so are gays. Look at me,for an instance.I won't back down from any physical activities and sometimes people thought that I'm just play acting to get close to girls.

I do admit that being gay has a few perks like able to see a girl in nude and all but its pointless cos i don't have any feelings toward her.

The question that most would ask is gay life,all fun and games. Well, if ur in the rite crowd,yes its fun and games but it does get lonely sometimes when you are always in the spotlight and when for some,sex is pure sex without relationship (ONS).

The 2ND most vital question would be,why did u choose being gay.This question sometimes make me feel awkward cos the explanation always make the questioner confuse. The answer is being gay isn't like switching a light on,meaning that u can switch it off when you feel like it. Its programmed in ur body.

U might start wondering and state that they are ex-gays out there. Well,they may be ex-gays but they are still turned on by guys.

The most vital aspect of being gay is accepting who u are and be proud of it. Its important that u know who u are and go to hell with people who thinks that being different is wrong. This type of people are always in denial of themselves and the worst part is they use religion to support their claims.

I mean who are we to judge people when we are being judge by an higher power?