Monday, February 16, 2009

A song

A song is made up of two components which are lyrics and music. Both are important to make a great song. Most songs that we can remember has a catchy tune and amazing lyrics so are relationships,u tend to remember the most painful and the most sweetest part of ur relationships.

What I want to say is a song is like a relationship. Most ppl would say that music is the sexy guy who u meet on the bus,u keep on catching glimpses of while lyrics is the guy that u come home to despite his many flaws.

Just imagine if what u care in a relationship is just physical or just for the sake of having great sex. Many of us had fallen into this trap before,looking for physical traits only. Yes,u may say that u don't do this,u don't just judge ur future bfs just on physical appearance but the whole package but could u be honest and swear that u were not attracted by the physical appearance of ur bf but by the way he is or by his brains at the 1st meet.

Try this test,close ur eyes,envision ur bf,try to think about his qualities that you feel attracted to and each time that u imagine a physical attribute,put a tick on a piece of paper. If u succeed in doing this without having to put a tick,ur either lying or u really love ur bf for who he is and not his solid abs,large guns or a huge cock.

Many of us would like to think that having a good looking bf is enuff and we tend to ignore his flaws and just wave the white flag even there is a quarrel,the wise of us would look for emotional compatibility and similiar wavelength and all.So in the end,our choice in finding the right mate is a mark of our maturity.

ps:inspired by Music and Lyrics ( a film)

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

personality is surely something we should look for in a partner, but i just cant help it if i have a bf with beautiful eyes that can swallow me.. LOL..