Is this it? Is this truly it?

Over the years,I see many gays make the same mistake that I made,although some learn of the truth,some still wander in the darkness. It seems that most or all gays at some point of their life thought that having a lover is the 1st priority in their life but sadly it seems that having a lover isn't that important at all.

Why do I say this? Well,gays are men and we all know that men aren't the committed lot.That's why u can't see gay couples who are in the hurry to get married,this feature is often shown by our lesbian sisters. Tell me frankly,could yourself raising a family with ur bf? Don't ur eyes often stray when a hunk walked past when your lover is beside u?

Its better to focus your energy to better yourself,get a better job or car or even a house.I realized this when my aunt who is a transvestite started to live alone,away from her bf of 15-20 yrs. The reason was the spark was gone. Both of them parted without the usual fights or misunderstandings.

I'm not saying that gays are not able to love but sometimes lust is misunderstood as love.This phenomena is common among the young and sometimes happened among the old birds.Just because a guy gave you extra special attention,you start to yearn for him. To him,you are just a cock/hole for him to try and when he leaves you,you start to lament that he's the love of ur life.

Again,I'm not saying that gays are just cock hungry,I have seen couples who endure decades together.I am trying to say is you should not focus on love only,there is more to gay life than finding Mr Right.You should spend more time on make urself better or on those loving friends who are always there during your hardest moments or promote for understanding of being gay among the narrow minded breeders.

To the young ones,don't simply say he is Mr Right after a nite of love making,go and experience the ups and downs of gay life and find frens that really wants to help you to be a better person. After all,you need that one person who isn't afraid to burst your dreams and force you to return to reality.Also be happy and merry,try all those kinky and fetishes that gays are known for and pick ur own fetish. Through experiences,you will know what you want in the future and in Mr Right.

And everyone knows that when you trying hard to find love,Cupid seems to be on a holiday but it seems that love will always find u when u least expect it.

PS: Paragraph no 6 isn't for Little Prince.