Those who are close to me will know that I like to talk about topics that can be debated easily or simply just take one side of a subject and argue about it.
So how do I like to do it?
1) No emotions shuld be involved in the debate
The reason is simply when ppl argue,they tend to be a bit hot between the ears which would end up in a fist fight if both parties can't control the temperature of the debate.
2) I may not like what u say but I'll defend ur right of saying it.
Everyone has the right to speak out,what they speak about is up to them,no one has the right to take the rights of a fellow man away from him. Sure,sumtimes ppl will talk stupidly but its up to u to decide whether u on his side or on the other side.
3) Everything must be backed with facts
Each point in an argument must have facts,u can't simply say that the milk turned sour cos the cat walked past it. Always remember that no one stays dumb forever,its just that they are a bit slower than others
4) Focus on the present,not the past
Normally when ppl argue especially lovers,they'll start to dig out the past events where the partner was wrong. This attitude of digging out the past isn't good cos it shows that ur vengeful. Vengeful ppl are best to be left alone.
5) Don't drag ppl into the argument
Sumtimes, when ppl argue, they start to drag ppl into teh quarrel.Eg
A: Ur family are a bunch of mules
B: Oh yeah? well,guess what? ur family is even worst,they are the descendants of birds due their low IQ.
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