Its strange how certain topics get around in the blogosphere,recycled and given a fresh intake of the topics.
I hate cliques,I reaally do. The problem with cliques is the rules. In a clique,we always have a Queen figure who dictates who's in and who's out and sumtimes different cliques don't mix well with each other.
I was a part of a clique before and I hated every outing,dinner and brunch with them.The reason was they were too orderly for me,I couldn't hang with other frens and lastly,they insisted on having only a certain character in their group. For me,the last reason is damm stupid cos it kills the sense of individuality.
Since then,I just find individuals who share the same wavelength or interests as I do. If they introduced me to their other frens,I'm ok with it but don't expect me to agree to everything that the majority agrees on.
This attitude of mine makes ppl think that I'm snobbish or ego-centric but actually,I'm quite frenly and eccentric. I know I have certain quirks when discussing about manga or science or history issues or even sumtimes,questions on life. Hey,that's my right to question why the sky is blue.
Being clique-less actually gives me a sense of freedom especially freedom in thinking. I have known drugs addicts and ppl who drives big cars and love fine dining. This experiences that I got do help me in being a better person and know that time pondering on thinking about what the world thinks about me is time wasted.
I don't need to follow ppl's footsteps in making a mark for myself in life. I rather like being alone and being heard than being in a crowd and shouting for ppl to hear me.
But being clique-less has one prob though, u have to decide which open-house that you want to go to and being polite in the rejecting the rest.
3 comments:
I think cliques are kinda fun, as long as you know where to draw the line. Not all cliques have the same rules. In fact, some cliques don't even have rules at all. Maybe you just haven't found the right one for you yet.
I used to have this clique and we were called the "fish gang". HAHA! Sadly, we've kinda split up already and hadn't had a full gathering in quite awhile. But I still do keep in touch with the individual members ;)
hmm... I see alot similarities here. I can be counted as clique-less too. whoever comes along just comes and go. I stick to no rules and just speak my mind like nobody matter.
Not many ppl can click with me as in we have diff wavelengths. Some of them limit themselves to religious boundaries. While some just have too many secrets. I have yet to find ppl that just blurts whatever thats in their minds.
Oh wait... My roomie clicks with me =) too bad he is not PLU. I would totally have him as a bf. He could crap all day and his jokes are never ending.
No man's an island. Cannot have it both ways la.
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