M.A.D

The term M.A.D was 1st coined during the Cold War era,it stands for Mutually Agreed Destruction.It was believed that both the US and USSR had the capability to destroy in world in by nuclear. This M.A.D scenario prevented both parties to actually push the red button. Many thinks that the world is ending in 2012 or 3000 but few realized that the world almost came to an end on 1962.

Enuff of the history part. What I'm trying to say is in every relationship,there is M.A.D scenario,a point where both parties said or do too much to start the end of a relationship.

I agree that sumtimes when we fight,even quarrel between frens can escalate quickly into a fight till death cos each misunderstood the other party's intention. This often happened when both parties have strong personalities and huge egos.But at in the end of the day,u always know that u can rely on the other for support.

But what happens if the other party or even you,yourself failed to stop at the line and over crossed the line,sure u can always hope forgiveness but sometimes,2 much is just 2 much.

The cause of the quarrels are simple in reality,quarrels start with one's demands in the relationship is not met by the other party and the other party's demands more. This would result in either a lose-win situation which will cause the loser to hold a grudge or a lose-lose situation which both parties gained nothing in the end. Each party in the relationship must know when to pull and let go,if one keeps pulling the other,surely the other would snap. And so you think that its fair for one party to keep giving in?

Just think about it.
Ivan