Thursday, September 10, 2009

Chase

There is a saying in Malay which goes,"kalau kejar duit,dapat perempuan tapi kalau kejar perempuan,hilang duit. In simple translation,it says that its wiser to chase after money than women cos with money,u can get any women u want but if u start chasing woman,u'll lose money in process.

The reason behind my post is recently,I had a buka puasa session with my highschool fren who had said that another highschool fren(B) is doing great now,have a good car,a good job and a beautiful girl. B and I used to speculate that when we are successful with loads of money,girls or guys would come flocking to us regardless of how we look.

Since graduation,I had not thought about this saying cos I believe that love is not based on material needs. (Sue for me watching too much love stories). But in retrospect, I think that the saying has some truth in it,guys would notice more if u got da bling and the world doesn't care about u if ur poor.

So little value pure love has these days.

8 comments:

William said...

Will never know if the love is genuine if the shadow of $$$ hangs above the relationship. But depends lor... the person might not crare..

Pranny said...

Be realistic.. Even if you don consider money as part of love, do consider money as part of life.. You still need a basic amount of income to cover both of your expenses...

Lucas said...

well... whether u believe it or not, a relationship i always based on love.
love for money...
love for the other person...
or making love.
so yea... i gues thats how the world goes round.

miss yien_ireena said...

nok,
mak tension ar..
sorang minah ni duk tiru style mak..
bengang nye!!!

ichimaru akira said...

Will: Have to be carefull when falling in love especially if ur rich

Little prince: I'm not talking about the importance of money,I'm taking about how money could influence ppl to do anything.

Lucas: Thanks

Bravebear said...

For years I chase. Be its for love, friendship, attention, results, material... I find no value in any of the above now. not that I have them or not. Its cos I dont see the importance of chasing after something that is never going last. Everything that has a beginning has an end like how we are born, grow, and then die. For all things dont truly belong to us as its all just temporary while we are on earth. I guess nothing really matters...

Anonymous said...

Well most ppl will just flock if u flaunt it. Well, its just a temporary love, coz money wont buy the love and u'll end up with unsatisfying relationship.

ichimaru akira said...

Bravebear: never give up on love,no matter how painful it becomes.

Armanique: So true