Love Syndrome

Love Syndrome or Love Sickness happens when u or a friend is in love and start to devote time to be with their better half and start to ignore friends' invites to hang out or chat and slowly u could see him spending 24 hrs together with his lover and often than not,giving silly excuses to not go for the usual yamcha sessions.This is just one of the side effects that we have to endure when a friend is in love. The other effects are forgetfulness,day-dreaming,constant glances on the phone and etc.

As frens,we understand that u need time to be with your lover,to strengthen ur love or whatever but u can't just ignore frens totally. Talking from experience,I have this fren who would always organize yamcha sessions or movie outings but this events only happens when he is single. We could always tell that he got someone new when he stops calling us out. I don't like this type of ppl cos to them,frens are like accessories,when u need them,u wear them and when the need is gone,u put them in storage. For me,frens are invaluable and I always put them 1st.(maybe,its a mistake to that.) I always tell my lovers that my frens have a higher priority than them,some could accept it and some couldn't. Those who could not accept it often don't make it to a higher level.

I know readers might say that I'm opening a can of worms here or simply being green but I think this issue is quite serious cos many of us face it among our group of frens. Call me jealous or what but what if a fren do this to u especially in ur hour of need. Won't you feel upset or angry?

My mum always advice me not to do things that I hate to others. If I could put aside an hour or more to hang with frens or reply msgs when I'm dating or busy,don't you think that u could do the same?I admit that when we have a lover,our phone bills tend to go a bit higher but is that a valid reason to not call friends?

Some of my frens would say that I'm overreacting to this side-effect and they would say that I'm being childish and being a Kacau Daun.I'm just saying that if I could manage time and be equal to all,don't I at least deserve the same.

I'm not saying that its bad or its okay to subject ur friends to this but everything needs moderation. Friends will always be with u but lovers,they have a time limit. So sometimes its ok to say no to ur lover once a while and spend time with ur frens and if ur lover gives u an ultimatum,the either me or ur fren,I hope u know which to choose.